The
present article will discuss in detail about “behavior problem”, “its
(behavior problem) occurrence at different stages of development”, “symptoms or
signs of behavior problem”, “causes of behavior problem”, what is meant
by “adolescent
rebellion”.
What is “Behavior Problem”?
Every child
shows some behavior problem at a particular stage or at different stages of
development in his life. But in case of some children, behavior problems occur
more frequently. Some of these behavioral problems persist over a period of
time like a chronic disease. In most cases, these problems interfere with their
normal day-to-day activities and the activities of the classroom.
The behavior
problem refers to those behaviors of the child which create or which are likely
to create difficulties in the learning activities of the child. As a result,
the instructional program and discipline of the classroom get hampered.
About 2-4
percent of children in the classroom demonstrate behavior problems. The occurrence
of behavior problems is more in case of boys than in case of girls. Girls also
experience behavioral problem; since they (girls) are more capable of socially
adaptable behavior, their problems do not come to focus.
A child
may show one or more than one behavior problem during his period of
development. Some behavior problems may occur at a specific stage of development
while some behavior problems occur at different stages.
For example,
revolt against parents, teachers, and other authority figures is characteristics
feature of adolescence. Similarly, stranger anxiety is a problem of infancy. Lack
of interest in studies or negligence of duties may occur at any stage of
development.
M. Dash
(1995) conducted a study on behavior problems of children. His findings reveal
the following behavior problems occurring at different stages of development.
Stages of Development
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Behavior Problems
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Infancy
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Crying
Lack of appetite
Stranger anxiety
Separation anxiety
Sibling rivalry
Jealousy
Bed-wetting
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Early Childhood
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Excessive shyness
Unhappiness
Temper tantrums
Obstinacy
Jealousy
Bed-wetting
Laziness
Bullying and teasing
Cheating
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Late Childhood
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Excessive shyness
Unhappiness
Temper tantrums
Obstinacy
Laziness
Bullying and teasing
Cheating
Stealing
Defiance
Daydreaming
Truancy
Telling a lie
Vulgarity
Destroying school property
Getting nervous and feeling disappointed over
petty matters
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Adolescence
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Rebellion against parents, teachers, and
authority
Unhappiness and excessively moody
Laziness
Bullying and teasing
Cheating
Telling a lie
Stealing
Destroying school property
Defiance and disobedience
Excessive daydreaming
Truancy
Vulgarity
Objectionable behavior towards girls
Getting disappointed over petty matters
Excessively thoughtful
Excessive carelessness
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Causes of Behavior Problems:
Every behavior
has a cause. The behavior problem of a child has also a cause or a number of
causes. The manner in which the child behaves is clear enough to suggest that
he has a problem. This external manifestation of the child’s problem through
his typical behavior may not indicate the real cause or causes of his problem.
For example,
a child of Class V steals money from the schoolbag of his classmates. But why
does he steal money? There may be a number of causes of his stealing money. Stealing
money is a symptom of an underlying problem. The causes of his behavior problem
cannot be ascertained from its symptom. The causes of his behavior problem can
only be ascertained through a psychological analysis.
A child
behaves in a specific way to meet his basic needs and to avoid or to get rid of
frustrating circumstances or the impending danger which may arise out of the
failure to satisfy his basic needs. if his behavior is not socially acceptable,
it is considered as behavior problem.
Behavior
problems are not hereditary in nature. They are caused by social and
psychological environment of the child. The environment which causes behavior problem
may be the home environment or the school environment of the child.
Home Environment:
Some children
come from families with low socio-economic status. The way such children are
brought up, the care, education and stimulation which they receive in their
homes cause behavior problems in such children.
It is
generally noticed that the occurrence of behavior problems is more in case of children
who come from low societies than those children who belong to middle class or
high class societies.
For example,
a child from low class society may learn that stealing is acceptable until it
is detected. But a child from high class society may learn that stealing is
bad.
In some
homes, parents exert authority over their children. Children who are brought up
by authoritarian parents generally show bullying and teasing behavior towards
their classmates. Some children are rebuked, scolded, insulted, blamed and
punished very frequently by their parents. They are considered as useless by
their parents. In some cases, these children are rejected and neglected by
their parents. Such children show behavior problems at later point of time.
Parents
teach social and moral values to their children. Children also learn values
from their peers. Very often parental values come in conflict with the value
system of peers. If the child fails to appreciate the parental values and
behave accordingly and if his behavior is predominantly influenced by the value
system of peers, behavior problem may occur. This is particularly noticed during
adolescence. We call it “adolescent
rebellion”.
In some
homes, children are discourages by their parents for performing various
activities. Such children fail to co-operate in various school programs. A child
who has been discouraged in his home does not understand the significance of
co-operative behavior in school. Rather, he demonstrates “attention-getting
mechanism” to draw other’s attention towards him.
School Environment:
In addition
to the home environment, the school environment is largely responsible for
behavior problems of children.
The school
policy, the social, moral and psychological climate of the school, teacher’s
behavior and attitude towards the problem child, and inter-personal
relationship among children in the school, etc. lead to the behavior problem or
aggravate the behavior problem of children.
Some children
notice differences in the behavior acceptable in school and those that are
encouraged at home. Generally in most schools, middle class behavioral
standards are accepted. If a child from low social class imitates the behavior
of middle class and behaves accordingly at his home, parents discourages it.
On the
other hand, if the child behaves according to the low class standard, he is
punished in the school. This creates confusion in child’s mind. Behavior
problems arise out of such confusion. Children who express their confusion
adopt defence mechanisms. Children who do not express their confusion
or conflict but keep it within themselves remain unhappy or moody most of the
time.
The child
learns in the school that adults are always right and that children are wrong. He
also finds a gap between what adults say and what they do. For example, a
teacher who himself smokes advises children not to smoke. Thus, the child
starts defying the teacher. Defiance is a behavior problem.
Children
are forced to abide by the rules and regulations of the school. But they do not
find any meaning or justification of the school policy. Thus, they begin to
defy or violate school policy, and consequently are punished for violating
school discipline. The punished child may later follow school policy or he may
continue to violate the discipline.
The curriculum
load of the school becomes unbearable for some children. Continuous teaching in
the classroom, load of homework, and undue emphasis on examination make the
child distracted and disinterested in studies. If such a child does not get
academic help from parents or elders, he becomes a truant.
A truant
leaves his home in time, but he does not go to school. He spends his school
time in the playground, parks, cinema hall and watches television somewhere
with some of his friends. Then, he reaches his home in time.
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